I remember seeing my Dad get presents of new socks when I was young and thinking what a terrible present that was.
Now I sometimes get presents of new socks and I’m delighted.
The intention of the sock-buyer was the same each time – but my interpretation of their action has changed.
Actions will be interpreted differently depending on the viewpoint of the person interpreting them.
It’s important to remember that when analysing reactions.
It’s also sometimes crucial to forget it, especially at the moment of action, or you might never act.